Discussing Dysgraphia

Some kids struggle more than others with learning how to write. 

In some cases, the reason for this could be dysgraphia, which is a learning disorder.

There are different ways that kids with dysgraphia may find it difficult to learn how to write. 

Some kids have trouble with fine motor skills, like holding a pencil and writing words neatly, and others struggle with the cognitive aspects of organized writing. Some kids have a combination of both.

One thing to always remember about any learning disorder is that it can greatly lower kids’ self esteem when it comes to school. This can affect their grades, causing them to feel frustrated about not being caught up with the material, which can lower their motivation to complete their work, and create a cycle that kids feel stuck in. They may feel they have dug themselves a hole they cannot get out of.

This may also present as kids having behavioral issues.

Kids might also experience anxiety, depression, homework-induced stress, emotional dysregulation, meltdowns, and more.

So, how can we help?

• Parents can help by advocating for your kids to make sure they have got the proper support in school. This can look like an IEP or 504 plan, and may vary depending on your child’s needs and what they struggle with specifically. 

• Parents can also help by praising your kid for their hard work, recognizing that it is much harder for your child than others.

• Empathy is also a major key in making sure your child is set up for success if they have dysgraphia. 

Oftentimes people may assume that a child with a learning disorder is lazy, that they are not smart, or that they have behavioral issues. It is important to remember that these are misunderstandings and that your child learns differently than other kids.

With a diagnosis in place, everybody on the same page, and the proper support in place in school, kids with dysgraphia can learn how to write and excel in school. They can be taught how to manage their symptoms and become more confident students. The first step in this process would be to get your child evaluated and diagnosed so that their school is able to provide the help that they need. 

Although learning disorders present a major challenge for children in school, and dysgraphia can be a particularly difficult learning disorder to have, children with dysgraphia can still thrive in school if their learning environment is appropriate. 

If you feel that your child is struggling with the emotional symptoms associated with a learning disorder, such as anxiety, depression, low self-confidence, and behavioral issues, and you would like to receive additional support, do not hesitate to schedule an appointment with a child therapist today. At Amel Counseling we offer free, 15-minute phone consultations and we can see how we can support you and your family.